Hard work, Dedication, and Sophistication are just the inception.  Be the person who keeps their word and be sincere to your name. Your commitment and your title are all you, and I have at the end of the day. Take your time and do what is right for you, and the universe will take care of you.

Marking Your Spot

Being in a man dominated industry just makes the journey so much more fun. There is nothing like a challenge within your life path, not with others. Oh hell… Yeah you do have to compete even against the ones you care about the most, but at the end of the day make sure you never forget that person who stood by your side even on your rainy days. I’ve been standing strong with my paralegal practice, directing and movie production adventure. I love a good challenge.

Rule #1: Stop worrying about what everyone else is doing and worry about what your next move is.

You will succeed all you dream with much hard work and dedication in doing what you love. #AMBITION will take you to the highest mountain of success. Live your life to the fullest everyday.


I had a pleasant conversation with a good friend of mine, and she mentioned having a women’s meet-up about intimacy. Now when she spoke about intimacy I thought about, love, sex, desire and infatuation, But she was on a whole other level.

She kept asking me to repeat the word intimacy, so I did, and she was like saying it extremely fast. Okay… so I did. “LIGHT BULB” She meant for the person who is willing to get to know me is willing to look-in-ti-mi and see me for whom I am, and love what is there. Intimacy is so much more than a sweet kiss or a gentle hug. We fail to realize  to look at yourself and see you whom you are… You need to figure out who you are first.

Who are you?

What is your five year chief aim?

Are you even happy with yourself?

No, I am not an expert, but I am a woman who has been through hell and high water. I went from hating myself, beating myself up and allowing others to do the same because I thought it was common. Until I woke up on the right side of the bed, looked at my reflection and realized I wanted the old me back. Sophisticated, Sassy, Ambitious, Sexy, Kind and I never give up on what I believe in.

So at the end of the day, you must look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself who am I and what is my worth. I have always considered myself PRICELESS!

The next time you hear or see the word intimacy know this word has a higher meaning.

LOVE yourself for whom you are, and if you don’t like what you are CHANGE IT

Remember: You are the Master of your Abilities and Everything is Possible.

If you are looking to be inspired, and get off your backside and live your life watch this documentary.

Black America Web

Beyonce pretty much owned cable TV on Saturday night.

HBO’s documentary “Beyonce: Life Is but a Dream” pulled 1.8 million viewers during its 9 p.m. ET premiere. It’s the largest audience for a HBO doc since Nielsen revised its method of measuring viewership in 2004.

The only other documentary to approach Beyonce’s haul was previous record holder “When the Levees Broke: A Requiem in Four Acts.” The Spike Lee miniseries about the devastation caused to New Orleans by Hurricane Katrina earned 1.7 million viewers in 2006.

“Life Is but a Dream’s” haul pulled three times the ratings of recent first-runs for HBO’s Sunday series “Girls.”

Beyonce’s presence was also felt on OWN. Her one-hour interview on “Oprah’s Next Chapter,” premiering at 8 p.m. Saturday, averaged just above 1.3 million viewers. That topped all of ad-supported cable’s non-sports programs in the targeted women 25-54 demographic in the time period.

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Hard work and dedication will always pay off. Congrats Rihanna!

Miss Monét

This week just got better for Rihanna. On Sunday she debuted her collaboration with River Island aptly titled Rihanna for River Island, today marks her 25th birthday, and today also marks the day that Riri is embarking on a new “creative partnership” with M.A.C. Cosmetics. This girl puts in work, it’s only Wednesday, there’s still 3 more days left in the week!

WWD reported that M.A.C. and Rihanna have creatively partnered for  RiRi Hearts MAC., four limited edition color collections set to launch throughout 2013. This collection marks a first for both Rihanna and M.A.C., being that Rihanna has never partnered with a cosmetics giant such as them, and M.A.C. has never worked with a celebrity on a long-term collaborative effort before.


RiRi Woo“, a play on the brand’s iconic ‘Ruby Woo’  shade, is the signature lip color that each collection will be built around.  ‘RiRi Woo’ will launch first, online and at Rihanna’s ‘Diamonds Tour’…

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100 Percent Commission

I am a women who is very passionate in what I do and how I do it. I have worked in the legal field for the past seven years, and I have been through hell and high water with what we call office politics. I find myself ready for a change.

For the past six years I have taken a liking in writing and I wont stop until I reach the top. I’ve recently started traveling to meet new writers from every genre and I love it. I was amazed by how many people have the passion to write. I am here to give the best information I can. I will never bullish you on what I blog on.

I started working with the empower network and they have showed me some amazing things about blogging and making a realistic amount of money.

Anything worth having is worth the hard work and dedication to get it.

As human being we see a small block in the road and we give up on what is just on the other side waiting for us, but we give up because we quit believing in OURSELVES. 

It’s a new year and a new you. What are you going to do today to make a difference in your life. Where are you going to mark your spot to tell people your story and how you survived.




Early Valentine.

Another day full of love and blessings… The first time in ten years I can finally say someone sees my sophistication, dedication and love for what I do, instead of just my bomb ass curves.

When you take the time to get to know a person for whom they are it could end up being a beautiful thing at the end of the day.

Love is real, and it is out there, just take your time and love will find you; do not go looking for it… It just does not happen that way.

I must admit I had to learn how to LOVE and RESPECT MYSELF before someone else would take the time out to see whom I am and know that I AM PRICELESS…





Bipolar Diary

The doctor tells me, “Ms. Crayton, you have Bipolar Disorder.”

  In my mind; “okay, I have severe anxiety, depression and now I’m Bipolar, great what next?”

I got medication that made me feel unlike myself, dragging my feet, slurring my words, and being unproductive.  I stopped taking the medication in October of 2009 because I didn’t believe I had bipolar disorder. I thought, “I’m just going through a tough time due to finding out my boyfriend of ten years, and two kids; decided to cheat on me with a female that was twenty years younger than him.”


I grabbed my shit, more than eighty percent of the house and tried not to look back “But this man is all I know, no other man is going to love me. I’m having these racing thoughts as I pace my 13×10 bedroom, crying asking myself, “what did I do wrong?” A tight grip on my hair; pulling on it, and then punching myself in my head trying to knock out all the negative thoughts about what I had done. “GOD… please help; I would look up at the ceiling crying asking for an answer.” The answer was, this man never cared nor loved me.


I had a hard time accepting the truth. “I’m going crazy.” I thought. I spazzed out, looking like those crazy people in the movies locked in one of those padded rooms.


I would go three to five days straight without sleep. My parents became concerned, and I told them just to give me time to heal, and I would be okay.


Mother’s Day 2010, I got into a big fight with my little sister and left to go home, and my kids’ father was in my home. I asked what he was doing in my home; he said, “We’re getting back together.” I was so lost, locked my door and took medication to make myself go to sleep forever.

Just as I thought my kids’ father, “that loved me so much,” called a family member to call the police, because I tried to end my life… I remember my family crying and yelling at the same time because he left me there to die. Again, I question myself is this love… who would leave a loved one to die.

As I came to, my uncle came in crying upset telling me he called my kids father and told him to get his ass down to the hospital to check on me; I started to cry and again the thought rushed through my head… just go to sleep, and this will all be over. When you’re in a manic stage, nothing matters; you’re confused, mad, and you hate yourself, because you feel the whole world his weighing you down, and you have no strength to push this weight up, and over you to feel secure again.

This is a piece of a short story I wrote for one of my writing classes.

I hope you like it!

It’s cold in these hills

Literally it is cold as the antarctic here. It’s practically raining ice and people have no good sense on the damn roads; they are sliding around like the road is a practice ice skating rink. Well folks IT’S NOT… Wake up and pay attention to the black ice.

How do people live in a state all their lives and still don’t comprehend how are elements work out here. ROAD RAGE… is all I can repeat in the back of my head while I keep a lovely smile on my face.

I’m going home and making me a lovely hot cup of chai tea and meditate.


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